Inquiring minds want to know…

posted by shone (inquiring Minds)

What's Up With Cheating?

   Does it make me a bad person if cheat on my man? I know it makes him a bad person if he cheats on me, lol, but in all seriousness, let’s be real.  In today’s society it seems it’s more common for a dude to have another lady then to just be with his wife. Let me break it down… Dude has a “wifey”, been with wifey for years she is #1 he will never leave wifey …then dude meets a girl and that becomes his “girl” #2, she wants to be wifey but at the same time she knows she never will be and does everything that wifey don’t do, they chill and kick and the sex is the bomb. Dude meets another girl #3, “his bitch” only thing he does with the chick is fuck her, he cares about her slightly “hey what’s up how you doing?” but still straight fucking nothing more nothing less, they don’t really spend no time together unless they fucking… Call her when he don’t want to be with wifey and his girl is tripping… she might be in her feelings or something.  Dude meets another girl “his hoe” he doesn’t care anything about her just do the business and keep it moving he barely knows her last name.

With all of that I don’t understand why they aren’t satisfied with the one.

If that whole scenario was played out with the roles being reversed dude would not handle it.

But for every dude that has a 1,2,3, and a 4, you can bet that his lady has the same. She has her hubby, her dude, the one who fuck her just right and probably a chick on the side too. 

I had a dude ask me flat out to be his mistress. I had to respect his honesty, but I don’t understand why there’s the need for it.  When you’re not happy you look to fill the void that makes you unhappy but goodness. It’s more common to find a dude cheating then one faithful.

Either way my motto is don’t do nothing you can’t handle being done back to you.