When I first heard about couples swinging, I couldn’t fathom how a husband or wife could allow their significant other to have sex with someone else. Do they really love each other?  Isn't that cheating? After visiting a swingers club myself, I’ve come to realize that these people have a love that is so strong and they share a bond that’s beyond words. 

 

    Now if I can keep it REAL for a minute...  Everyone knows that the longer you're in a relationship, the more likely you and/or your partner is going to get bored in the bedroom.  No matter how good the sex may be, it becomes a BORING ROUTINE!  Some couples, have accepted this fact, and instead of sneaking and cheating on one another behind each other’s back…they SWING.  Open your mind and analyze: when you swing you, you have control. Besides being turned on, you are there watching, making sure your partner wears PROTECTION and that the rules are carried out.  Rules? ---Yes rules! For example, my man and I had a rule of “No kissing, licking or sucking anyone else but each other”. We didn’t have to worry about the possibility of either of us falling in love or becoming emotionally attached to anyone else, because we had another rule that didn’t allow more than 2 encounters with the same person/couple. So rules are important and differ from couple to couple.

 

    Swinging made our relationship so much stronger.  We were able to talk about any and everything.  We had no secrets; there were no need for lies and deceit.  We became so much closer because we knew we could trust each other.

 

    Swinging is not for everyone! Now in order to swing, you MUST have an OPEN MIND, have some freakiness in you, you definitely cannot be the jealous type, and you have to be FAIR (especially the men)! You can’t expect to be able to swing, but have a problem when it’s your partner’s turn!!!